Interpreting Red Flags and Green Flag

LoveJournal highlights both warning signs and positive patterns in your dating history. Understanding these “flags” can help you make better choices and avoid repeating old mistakes.

🚩 What Are Red Flags?

Red flags are warning signs or negative patterns that often lead to unsatisfying or unhealthy relationships. Examples include:

• Repeated poor communication
• Disrespect or boundary violations
• Consistent feelings of anxiety, disappointment, or frustration
• Dealbreakers you’ve identified (e.g., dishonesty, lack of ambition)

How LoveJournal Helps:

The AI scans your entries for recurring red flags and will highlight them in your insights, so you can spot them early.

🟢 What Are Green Flags?

Green flags are positive signs that indicate healthy, promising relationship patterns. Examples include:

• Open, honest communication
• Shared values or interests
• Consistent feelings of excitement, comfort, or growth
• Traits you value (e.g., kindness, reliability)

How LoveJournal Helps:

The AI highlights green flags in your history, helping you recognize what’s working and what to look for in future dates.

How to Use Red and Green Flags

• Reflect: Notice which flags show up most often in your history.
• Act: Use this awareness to set boundaries, seek out positive patterns, and avoid repeating negative ones.
• Discuss: If you’re comfortable, talk about these patterns with a therapist, coach, or trusted friend.

Where to Find Flags in LoveJournal

• In your Insights tab, look for cards or sections labeled “Red Flags” and “Green Flags.”
• You may also see them highlighted in your pattern scores or recommendation

Tip:

Don’t ignore red flags, but also celebrate your green flags—they’re clues to what makes you happiest in relationships!